Its kinda tough when u know someone have a problem and u dunno whether u should ask or not. For me, I am always scared that i might be giving the wrong advice. But i won't hesitate to ask about the person's problem. Then i will kind of regret it because i realised i don't know what i should say after that. I might know what i will deal with the situation but i feel that if i told the person the wrong thing i might screw up his life. Hai... Why is it so difficult? Then after everything, i still don't know whether i have done the right thing or not. It sucks to not know whether u have screwed up the person's life or u have made it better. U just can't tell until very much later. It keeps alot of regrets with u and alot of burden stays with u as well. No wonder that say its tough being a nice guy.

I want to understand others better so i can have a better view of the situation. I want to help others. But i have no idea how i should do it.