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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

New Ways in Psychoanaylsis

Narcissism - inwardly in love with oneself and seek admiration from others in areas where there is and no adequate foundation for.
Causes - influenced by parents who superimposes their own ambitions onto their child. causes the child to lose the ability to measure his own's values and become dependent on others for opinion. Also caused by direct blows to self esteem, undermined by sibilings (due to preference for other sibilings by parents).
Character trends - increasing unproductivity, striving for admiration. Causes superficaiity, showmanship, opportunism so that he will be socially desirable. He chooses so that he can be popular and not because he personal likes that option.
May eventually hold grievances towards other but he hold others reponsible for this failures and are often hurt by other for not giving that people even attention.

Super ego - rigid and high moral standards. Motivating force in thier lives is a passionate drive toward rectitude and perfection. They feel the need to be in control and blame themselves heavily for their own failures. They feel that they are strong enough to endure any maltreatment without fear, compliance and resentment.
Causes - often were under great authority and thus shift his centre to the authorities. Therefore there is high adherence to standards and thus causing a feeling of superiority. Therefore causes the pursuit of perfectionism and high quality of work.

Masochistic - tendency towards self minimising (feel unattractive, insignificant, inefficient, stupid, worthless). He feels that he is incapable of living without presence, love, friendship of another as he is incapable of living without oxygen. Basically very pessimistic in nature and wish for pity from others.
Characteristic - tend to find security through self belittling by making oneself insignificant, unattractive and inconspicuous. Tend to be easily alarmed when offered a better job or better position somewhere else. Often expresses things in an apologetic way. Also can come with a need for power and control through his very own suffering and helplessness. His friends and famil may sibmit to his wished because they are afraid if they do not there will be an upheaval of some kind.

Did a summary on three different characteristic. I think i can find these behaviours in many people around me somehow. Therefore trying to use this post to remind myself of these characteristic.... Whew.... So which one do u think u are?

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