When one make a mistake, he will often will depress, down and perhaps even starts blaming himself in many ways. At times like this, there will be some people who will keep telling u about ur mistake and talking about it over and over and over and over.... Even though that person will be very irrtated and angry because of that, he can't blame others for saying it and at the same time that anger is built up inside of him. This anger comes from both himself and also from others reprimanding him. But he just can't do anything about it. Its just like being pushed on all sides with no way out at all. The worse thing is when even ur closest friends or family member just keeps harping on it as if u have not learnt ur lesson yet.

Normally at this juncture, two things can happen. one is that the person just explodes and throws his tantrum around. He will anger everyone around him because they will all think that he does not want to admit his mistake. this will cause a misunderstanding because he actually alrready knows his mistake.

Another that can happen is that the persons just keep everything in him, push it into his subconsciousness. This may seem to be the right thing to do because everyone is happy and everything is peace. However, it can have an adverse effect over the long run. The person might lose this selfconfidence and self esteem. He will also be more timid to similar events in the future. Even worse case senarios he will rmb the event for life and haunt him. He will then unknowingly have negative feelings towards those people innvolved in the irritation which sometimes has no basis.

The correct thing to do is actually to find an outlet somewhere to release the stress. U can either find a friend or someone or even something if possible to talk to. It not good to always keep things inside u or just release it right into people's face.

Haha... i think i am either typing a whole lot of nonsense or i am being a good counsellor. Oh well... time to sleep...